#006: Connecting Emotionally

Today we're talking about how to use the skill of empathy to show understanding to your spouse & connect emotionally. Instead of talking about reflective listening or using a speaker-listener technique, it's important to understand that communication in marriage is more about connecting emotionally than it is about technique. 

*This episode is the second in a 4-part series on communication in marriage. 

Intro & outro music: @johntibbsmusic

Mentioned on this episode: 

• Brene Brown on Empathy: https://youtu.be/1Evwgu369Jw

• Marriage/Premarital Coaching with Kensi: http://bravemarriage.com/couples-coaching

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#005: How to Really Listen

How to really listen...sounds pretty basic, right?! But today we're actually covering 3 steps that have to happen in our own minds & hearts first if we want to become great listeners. 

1. Remind yourself: "My spouse has an equally valid & legitimate way of thinking, feeling, & reasoning."

2. Put your own perspective on hold.

3. Get curious about your partner's inner world.

Tune in over the next 15 minutes for a quick coaching session, action step, & prayer for your marriage!

"Know this...let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger...." James 1:19

*This episode is the first of a 4-part series on communication in marriage. 

Marriage/Premarital Coaching with Kensi: http://bravemarriage.com/couples-coaching

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Intro & outro music: @johntibbsmusic